Schwarzenegger – Scheidung noch nicht durch

Arnold Schwarzenegger

Die Scheidung ist nach wie vor nicht durch

Arnold Schwarzenegger wurde in Österreich geboren © Kathy Hutchins / Shutterstock.com

In einem Interview hat Arnold Schwarzenegger nun erklärt, dass er seinen Seitensprung bereue und er immer noch kein geschiedener Mann sei.

Arnold Schwarzenegger (70, „Terminator“) pflegte lange Zeit ein Saubermann-Image – egal ob als Schauspieler oder als Politiker. Auch seine scheinbar makellose Ehe mit Maria Shriver (61), der Nichte von John F. Kennedy, trug dazu bei. Die beiden heirateten 1986 und haben vier gemeinsame Kinder. Doch im Mai 2011 zerbrach die Ehe und es bahnte sich ein handfester Skandal seinen Weg an die Öffentlichkeit. Es wurde bekannt, dass Schwarzenegger seine Frau betrogen hatte und er der Vater des Kindes einer langjährigen Haushälterin ist. Ein Fehltritt, den der ehemalige Gouverneur von Kalifornien offenbar bis heute bereut.

In einem Interview für das neue Talk-Format „OJBECTified“ des US-Senders Fox sprach Schwarzenegger erneut über die Trennung von Shriver. In einem kurzen Teaser für die Show wird die Frage aufgeworfen, wie er jetzt, mit zeitlichem Abstand, über seinen Fehltritt denke. Darauf antwortete der 70-Jährige: „Ich brauche keine Zeit um darüber nachzudenken, wenn ich weiß, dass es ein großer, großer Fehler war“, so Schwarzenegger. Zudem bestätigte er, dass die Scheidungspapiere zwar bereits 2011 eingereicht wurden, die Scheidung aber noch nicht durch sei.

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Parental Alienation – Is this Oakland County’s most toxic divorce ever?

Is this Oakland County’s most toxic divorce ever?

Omer Tsimhoni and his ex-wife Maya Eibschitz-Tsimhoni, have been litigating their divorce for almost eight years over custody of their three kids.

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If bitter divorces ever become an Olympic event, Omer Tsimhoni and his ex-wife, 

Maya Eibschitz-Tsimhoni, might compete for the gold medal.

Their case in Oakland County became internationally infamous when the judge locked up the couple’s three children for refusing to have lunch with their father. But it’s also unique for its scale, cost and collateral damage.

More: Michigan high court rejects suspension on judge who jailed kids in custody fight

Consider some of the numbers:

  • Almost 8 years of litigation
  • 1,001 docket entries thus far
  • 21 lawyers, including 16 for Eibschitz-Tsimhoni alone
  • Three Oakland County judges and several trips to the Michigan Court of Appeals
  • Related cases filed in U.S. District Court in Detroit and also in courts in Israel
  • $400,000 plus in legal fees.

„It’s the most toxic case I’ve heard of since I’ve been practicing,“ said Birmingham lawyer Henry Baskin, who’s handled hundreds of divorces in almost 60 years of practice. „It’s war between these people. There’s hate, there’s vindictiveness. Everybody gets burned.“

Baskin, like many lawyers in metro Detroit, has watched the case closely. He’s never been hired by either side, but considering the number of lawyers who have been, he quipped „I think 20% of the bar is involved in the case.“

More: Did Judge Gorcyca have a right to a meltdown moment?

‚Worst nightmare‘

Oakland County Circuit Judge Lisa Gorcyca was nearing the end of her first year in office in December 2009, when she was assigned randomly case No. 766749-DM.

The DM code denotes a divorce case involving minor children. Gorcyca, an assistant prosecutor before being elected judge, was no stranger to hostile court proceedings. But it’s doubtful she could have anticipated that this particular divorce case would alter her career so dramatically.

„This case is every judge’s worst nightmare,“ Gorcyca’s lawyer, Thomas Cranmer, later told the Michigan Judicial Tenure Commission, in defending her actions.

Omer Tsimhoni is an Israeli citizen and a former pilot for the Israeli Defense Forces. He earned a doctorate in industrial engineering from the University of Michigan and now works as a General Motors researcher.

He’s lived most of his life in Israel, but currently resides in the U.S.

Maya Eibschitz-Tsimhoni is a pediatric ophthalmologist by training, who formerly taught at the U-M Medical School. A court filing indicated she’s let her medical credentials lapse but is working to restore them.

Court records show they married in 1995 in Israel, where they both grew up, then moved to the U.S. when she accepted a job in Ann Arbor. They had three children between 2001 and 2005, who were born in the U.S. but have dual citizenship.

In November 2008, Omer Tsimhoni returned to Israel to take a job with General Motors and hopes of bringing his family back with him eventually. The family moved to Israel but several months later, Eibschitz-Tsimhoni returned to Michigan with the children.

More: Judge Lisa Gorcyca has lawyers‘ support despite misconduct ruling

Lawsuits start

In December 2009, Eibschitz-Tsimhoni filed for divorce in Oakland, claiming the marriage had broken down and her husband was trying to take the children back to Israel.

Tsimhoni responded by filing court cases in Israel claiming his wife had kidnapped the children and also in U.S. District Court in Detroit, claiming she’d violated the Hague Convention, a multi-country treaty which seeks to protect children from abduction across international boundaries.

While the divorce case proceeded, Eibschitz-Tsimhoni was awarded temporary custody of the children and the acrimony soon escalated. He had once called police claiming his wife slapped his face as he tried to leave the house after an argument.

She later sought a personal protection order, claiming he assaulted her in front of her children. When the children visited their father, he was required to surrender his passport to Eibschitz-Tsimhoni, who held it until the children returned to her.

As the tensions grew, exchanging children became so hostile that police were needed to mediate the transfer. By September 2010, Gorcyca ordered psychiatric evaluations for the children, and the parents.

Parental alienation

Two months later, Tsimhoni made his first claim of parental alienation, arguing his wife was deliberately turning the children against him. Eibschitz-Tsimhoni denied it, claiming the children were afraid of their father, whom she said had been abusive toward them and that she couldn’t force them to love someone.

The issue would continue for years.

In August, 2011, the judgment of divorce was entered, granting joint custody but with the children living with their mother most of the time. Tsimhoni was ordered to pay $1,750 a month in child support.

The acrimony continued with Omer Tsimhoni continuing to claim that his children had been poisoned against him, barely speaking to him when they were together.

Eventually the children began protesting spending time with their father at all, and Gorcyca sought to enforce their father’s rights to see them. She’d order the children to spend time with their father, but they refused. At one point, they linked arms in the hallway to try to prevent them from being taken into court.

By early 2015, Gorcyca began warning the children that if they continued to defy her orders, they could be held in contempt and sent to Children’s Village, the county’s youth shelter/juvenile detention center.

She also continued to pressure Eibschitz-Tsimhoni to facilitate parenting time for their father. Gorcyca grew so frustrated with the mother that that on April 2, 2015, she order Eibschitz-Tsimhoni to report to the court at 9 a.m. and be detained in the courthouse lockup until 4:30 p.m.

Manson reference

At a hearing on June 23, 2015, Gorcyca threatened to jail Eibschitz-Tsimhoni if the children didn’t improve their behavior toward their father.

She ordered the children to meet with their father the following day in her court. One of the children met with her father at 9 a.m. in the jury room beside Gorcyca’s courtroom, but word soon reached Gorcyca that the child was not interacting with Tsimhoni.

Gorcyca spoke to the child briefly, then wrote a script for Eibschitz-Tsimhoni to read to all the children, explaining that their father loved them. When three children returned to the jury room about 11:30 a.m., they still refused to communicate with their father.

Gorcyca began contempt hearings against the children. The oldest child apologized to Gorcyca but refused to apologize to his father, saying his father was violent and had hit his mother.

Gorcyca told the boy his behavior was the worst she’d seen in 46,000 cases.

„You, young man are the worst one,“ she said. „So you bought yourself living in Children’s Village going to the bathroom in public and maybe summer school.“

Sheriff deputies then handcuffed the boy, who was 14 at the time.

She compared the boy’s actions to those of cult leader Charles Manson and made a circular motion with her finger near her ear as she said it.

„Dad, if you ever think that he has changed, and therapy has helped him and he’s no longer like Charlie Manson’s cult, then you let us know,“ Gorcyca said.

She eventually held all three children in civil contempt and ordered them held at Children’s Village for the summer and scheduled a review of their detention for September.

„No one from Mom’s side is allowed to visit any child at Children’s Village,“ Gorcyca wrote in an order.

The Michigan Supreme Court last week ruled that Gorcyca committed judicial misconduct when she „directed disparaging and demeaning remarks“ at the children. It rejected a 30-day suspension recommended by the Michigan Judicial Tenure Commission and ruled that a public censure was enough.

Media storm

News of the detention soon exploded in media coverage in the U.S., Europe and Israel. The case became a flash point in the parental rights argument.

Fathers‘ Rights groups ralliedto the side of Omer Tsimhoni, agreeing that he was the victim of parental alienation. Other groups rallied to the side of the mother, claiming the children can’t be ordered to love someone.

Facebook pages quickly sprung up promoting one side or the other. Two GoFundMe pages were set up to raise money for legal fees for Eibschitz-Tsimhoni, who would later acknowledge paying a public relations firm $10,000 to represent her side of the issue through social media and other means.

She also claimed to have spent more than $400,000 in legal fees, though at least one of her attorneys asked to quit the case over unpaid bills.

The children spent 17 days at Children’s Village before Gorcyca agreed to release them to attend a Jewish summer camp.

In July, 2015, Omer Tsimhoni asked the court to grant him sole custody of the children and in August, they were placed in a 5-day reunification program, aimed at addressing parental alienation. After that, Gorcyca gave their father temporary custody and ordered their mother to have no contact with them for 90 days.

Eibschitz-Tsimhoni wouldn’t see her children again in person for almost nine months, reuniting with them in April 2016.

Collateral damage

In September 2015, Eibschitz-Tsimhoni accused Gorcyca of being biased and asked Gorcyca to recuse herself. Gorcyca refused.

Eibschitz-Tsimhoni appealed to Oakland County Chief Judge Nanci Grant, who declined to hear the request, citing a possible appearance of impropriety. The case was turned over to St. Clair County Judge Daniel Kelly, who ruled that Gorcyca should remain on the case.

The Michigan Judicial Tenure Commission filed a misconduct complaint against Gorcyca over her actions in the case. Gorcyca insisted she’d done nothing wrong, but asked Grant to reassign the case. She did, giving it to longtime Judge Joan Young.

Gorcyca was now off the case, but found herself battling the misconduct charges.

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Cranmer, Gorcyca’s attorney, later asked the Michigan Supreme Court to dismiss the charges, saying Gorcyca’s actions were a one-time occurrence, borne of years of frustration with the case.

„Everything that she did in this case … with the exception of the hearing on the 24th … indicates her good faith and due diligence,“ Cranmer said.

Lynn Helland, executive director of the Tenure Commission, disagreed.

„It is a referendum on whether Michigan permits its angry judges to insult, berate and ridicule children and demonstrate a loss of impartiality and with the barest of nods to due process, find a child in contempt of an order that didn’t exist,“ Helland said.

Oakland County has spent $111,000 in legal fees defending Gorcyca against the charges.

Commission head fired

Gorcyca wasn’t the only person to have her career affected by the Tsimhoni case.

In September 2016, Paul J. Fischer, the executive director of the Tenure Commission who filed the complaint against Gorcyca, was fired. He later claimed in a lawsuit that he was the victim of religious discrimination because he is an Orthodox Jew.

Fischer said that shortly after the news reports of the children being sent to Children’s Village, he received a letter from Roey Gilad, the consul general of Israel for the Midwest, expressing concern about Gorcyca and her handling of the children, who have dual citizenship.

Gilad wanted to speak to the children and asked Fischer to ask Tsimhoni’s lawyers to arrange it. Fisher eventually passed on the request, and when he ran into one of the lawyers at a social event, handed him Gilad’s business card.

He was eventually fired by a commissioner, who is not named in the lawsuit. That commissioner had previously told Fischer, „You’re Jewish, you speak Hebrew, you’ve been to Israel,“ the suit claims.

Fischer’s lawsuit is pending in U.S. District Court.

 

Case continues

When Joan Young took over the case from Gorcyca, she quickly put both sides on notice that they needed to behave better.

„I like to think of this as an honorable profession … we should treat each other civilly,” Young said. She noted her disappointment at the hostile tone found in some of the pleadings, telling both sides she wouldn’t tolerate disparaging comments.

But both sides continued to fight the case. In January 2016, Eibschitz-Tsimhoni asked for custody of the children to be returned to her.

„The children lost their mother from their lives on June 24, 2016,“ Eibschitz-Tsimhoni’s lawyers wrote.

In early April, she was allowed to see them, but three days after their first reunion with their mother, their father asked again for sole custody of them.

In May, Young order the couple to take part in mediation and in June, Eibschitz-Tsimhoni was once again became primary custodial parent, having the children about 68% of the time.

Young retired in December 2016 after almost 30 years on the bench. The case was reassigned to Judge Victoria Valentine.

Eibschitz-Tsimhoni later asked for child support to help pay their expenses, saying in pleadings that she lives on an allowance from her parents in Israel of about $9,000 per month. Her ex-husband makes more than $200,000 and should pay more. she said.

Lawyers for both parents eventually withdrew from the case, but that didn’t end it. New pleadings continued to be filed as recently as earlier this month. The judgment of divorce was entered in 2011, but they continue to litigate other matters, most recently the sale of an Ann Arbor home.

Both parents now represent themselves.

 

Contact John Wisely: 313-222-6825 or jwisely@freepress.com. On Twitter @jwisely

 John Wisely, Detroit Free Press Published 11:02 p.m. ET July 30, 2017
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FAMILY LAW – Custody battle in Malaysia

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Here’s how easy it is to lose your child in a custody battle in Malaysia


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We all know how the saying goes – fall in love, then get married, then have a baby? For most people in love, a wedding is what they dream of. They seal their love for each other by exchanging vows and signing a marriage certificate, and live happily ever after. But… we all know that a Cinderella ending happens in fairy tales. In real life? Not so much. The happily-ever-after might fade and before we know it, it’s time to call a lawyer and say goodbye, even if there are things to consider… like children.

If there is a kid involved in a divorce, obviously only one parent will get custody of the child. The ideal situation is for both parents to seek mediation whereby they come to an amicable agreement without bringing it to court. Through this, the parents get to decide what is best for all parties and it’s also a lot more drama-free. But if both refuse to settle, this is where a custody battle comes in. It involves lawyers, money and the sole decider will be the judge.

Custody battles can get ugly, so Malaysians would want to think twice if they want to get a divorce if there are children involved. We’ve heard of many custody battles, but how does it actually work and what will cause you to lose the kid? We took a look at the Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976 (LRA) and here’s actually how easy it is to lose your child in a custody battle in Malaysia…

1. If you’re a dad and your kid is below 7 years

Malaysians have been seeing a pattern of custody being granted to more mothers than fathers. Image from mirror.co.uk

There’s a higher chance that the court will grant custody of children below the age of 7 to their MOTHERS, even though there’s an assumption that both parents are equally capable of caring for their child. According to Justice Faiza Tamby Chik, this is mainly due to the fact that babies are more physically dependent on their mommas by nature.

Malaysians have been seeing a pattern of custody being granted to more mothers than fathers and this has caused accusations of unfairness to dads. In order to gain custody, the father will have to prove that his spouse is not Mom of The Year and that he’s a better parent, in terms of finance and the overall welfare of the child, so the argument is completely refutable. The belief that younger kids are more attached to their mothers is actually no longer a legal requirement in many courts, but a case review study proved that an average 67% of judges in Malaysia still favour the presumption.

Meanwhile, the Syariah court states that the mother has a right of custody of a male child until he is 7 years old and a female child until she is 9 years old. Mothers may however apply to extend that right for the male child up to 9 years old and for the female child up to 11 years old. After that, the father has custody. If the child has reached an ‘age of discernment’, he/she can choose which parent to live with – the age of discernment is literally 8 years for the boy and 10 for the girl.

Although the judge is supposed to be all pro and stuff, many other professionals and parents continue to doubt the legitimacy of these decisions. Association Against Parental Alienation Kuala Lumpur and Selangor (Pemalik) has often claimed that decisions made in custody battles did not take into consideration the consequence of Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) in most cases.

“Parental alienation (PAS) occurs when one parent disallows the other parent from communicating with their children. The dominant parent then brainwashes the child against the other parent, assuring the child that it is all right to ignore the other parent.” – R.S. Ratna, Pemalik President, The Malaysian Bar

2. If your spouse converts your kid to Islam without your knowledge

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Indira Gandhi faced a custody nightmare when her ex-husband converted their kids to Islam and was granted custody by the Syariah Court. Image from The Malay Mail Online

Just so you know, Malaysia practices a DUAL justice system – civil law and Syariah lawSyariah law has a say over every Muslim in Malaysia and exclusively handles Islamic issues like family and religious matters. The two worlds never collided and everybody just kinda minded their own business, until people were accused of using the syariah law to their advantage and adding drama in custody battles.

The highly publicized cases of M. Indira Gandhi from Perak and S. Deepa from Negri Sembilan got people questioning how these laws function in relation to each other when both their ex-husbands unilaterally (means it’s done without the agreement or participation of other people it might affect) converted their kids to Islam and were granted custody by the Syariah Court. Both moms are Hindus and therefore, had no right to be there.

Obviously these moms weren’t gonna go down without a fight, so Indira challenged the case through the civil courts. She won and was granted full custody of her kids in 2010, but then her ex husband, Muhammad Riduan still refused to return their youngest daughter to her despite the High Court instructing the police to find him. However, the police got confused about who they should listen to…the civil court or Syariah court?

S. Deepa was involved in a similar custody battle. Image from http://hakam.org.my/

S. Deepa was involved in a similar custody battle. Image from hakam.org.my

And then the Court of Appeal (a very high level court) said the civil court shouldn’t interfere over Islamic issues, and that’s how Minister in the PM’s Department Datuk Seri Azalina Othman suggested an amendment to the Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976. The new Bill will ensure that Indira and Deepa’s case will not happen again because conversion of a child under the age of 18 will now require consent of BOTH parents!

“Now we are saying that all marriages under civil law must be resolved by the civil courts, it doesn’t matter if one person converts to Islam, the marriage took place under civil law. This will in turn take into consideration the issue of custody of children, and those who were born out of the marriage under civil law, the civil courts should deal with these cases.” – Nazri Aziz, Tourism and Culture Minister, The Malay Mail Online

 

3. If your kid likes your spouse more

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But I like daddy, too. Original image from koolcampus.net

Also, the law that comes into play in deciding the custody of children revolves around the wishes of the child when he or she is of an age to express an independent opinion (that’s 8 years old). This is applicable in both the civil and Syariah courts. This may seem like the most obvious solution to custody battles…let the kid pick la…but many family law practitioners and child experts believe that children should NEVER be forced to make these decisions. Can you imagine the guilt that would stay with them because they were forced to choose between mummy or daddy?

Interviews with children are common in Malaysia although it may not be the most effective method to achieve results, especially if the interviews are conducted by the judge only. Child interviews are a lot more complex than they look, and most family judges are not TRAINED in that department.

“It is not a simple case of asking the child simple questions like: ‘Who do you like more?’ or ‘Who is a better parent?’ Judges must understand that children may be coached or trained by the parent holding custody, so the questions have to be couched differently and judges will have to learn to read between the lines to get to the truth. They need a lot of training for that.” – Lalitha Menon, Bar Council’s Family Law Committee chair, The Star

Consultant psychologist Valerie Jaques also believes that the kids cannot fully be relied on to make such a major decision as they have not reached the full potential to make good decisions. Asking the kids to choose puts them in a difficult position as it creates a lot of stress, confusion and fear of rejection in them.

“This aspect could be improved by allowing the judge power to conduct the interview with a child psychologist, and/or pediatrician.” – Fahri Azzat, lawyer

 

4. If the welfare officer doesn’t like you

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Custody may not be granted to both parents if they are deemed unfit. Image from Pinterest

Ok la, the Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976 does not exactly give FULL control to children, as it does allow the court to listen to witnesses, doctor’s report, and the Welfare Officer. Some judges in Malaysia do depend on experts’ view to help with their decision.

While financial income is obviously very important (cause raising another human being ain’t cheap yo), the welfare of a child also includes providing him/her with support, love and security. Home and school environment is also looked into, so here’s a tip if you’re trying to win a custody battle: Tidy up your house and try to smile more at your kid and the Welfare Officer. As Welfare Officers mainly investigate the physical comforts, reports from psychiatrists and psychologists are highly helpful for their consideration.

However, Honey Tan, the Co-chairperson of the Bar Council Human Rights Committee and Chairperson of the Family Law Committee said the problem is that welfare reports are not very useful as Welfare Officers are not trained child specialists.

“It is a shame when parties cannot agree. In those situations, the judge is the best person to decide. Welfare reports should be obtained, but in practice, they are not of much use and not commonly ordered. Our Welfare Officers are not specialists in child rights and family dynamics, especially in situations where families are breaking down.” – Honey Tan, The Malaysian Bar

Aiyaya, some experts say better if the judge listens to Welfare Officer, others say better if the judge decides himself… then how? All in all, it looks like it puts either parent in a very precarious position. Either one could lose their children if it were up to Malaysian law. :-(

Think twice, thrice and as many times as you can before you get divorced if you have a kid

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I know I’m very lovable but please stop fighting!! Image from think.kera.org

Overall, law experts and practitioners agree that Malaysian law is not perfect when it comes to custody battles.

Bar Council’s Lalitha Menon noted that it’s important for judges to undergo basic training. Another aspect to improve on is the lack of uniformity, as different judges have different practices. Vicky Alahakone, also a member of the Bar Council, said that many children become victims in the long run as a result of inconsistent practices.

To prevent all unnecessary stress on the kid, Pemalik has proposed for a panel to guide divorcing parents instead of them calling it quits there and then. The association proposed an Early Intervention Project where divorcing parents will have to discuss some serious stuff such as custody, finance, education and their kids’ upbringing before divorce do them part for good.

At the end of the day, it’s the children who might be most affected by a failed marriage, especially if it involves a daunting custody battle. You might think that they will get it over with after a while, but studies have shown that it’s something they carry with them for the rest of their lives. It will affect their studies, social relationships and psychological adjustment. After all, they are kids and their problems should only consist of not being able to eat ice cream for breakfast, not stuff like choose only one parent to live with.

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Wegweisung – Es gibt keine Menschenrechte für Väter in Österreich!

Translate to EnglishSignposting – There are no human rights for fathers in Austria!

Menschenrechte für Männer und Kinder

Menschenrechte sollten für alle da sein, also auch für Männer und Kinder. Leider ist es in Österreich aber derzeit  nicht  so. Viele Männer und Scheidungskinder könnten davon Romane schreiben oder stundenlang von Ihren eigenen Erfahrungen schreiben. …

Leider werden die Dinge oft von vielen Politikern verfraulicht und einseitig betrachtet, wie es in den letzten Jahren seit 1990 von vielen Frauen in der Politik geschehen ist.

Dies war eigentlich der Hauptgrund warum ich nach 20 Jahren Mitgliedschaft aus der SPÖ ausgetreten bin. Die SPÖ war hier maßgeblich daran beteiligt, dass z.B. aufgrund des Sparpaket 1995 unter Franz Vranitzky sehr viele Frauenhäuser, wie Semmelweisklinik usw,  zugesperrt wurden und die Gelder hierfür eingespart wurden, des weiteren wurde durch die  SPÖ  und deren hauptsächlich  feministischen Wei**** (zensuriert von der Redaktion) wie  Bures  und  Prammer usw. 1995 ein neues Gesetz verabschiedet, welches widerrechtlich in bestehende Eigentumsrechte eingreift.

Da dieses Gesetz fälschlicherweise als Zivilgesetz verabschiedet wurde und nicht als Strafgesetz, kann es jederzeit, also ohne Beweise nur aufgrund von Vermutungen von jedem Scheidungsrichter in Österreich angewendet werden, dies ist derzeit auch so der Fall. Aufgrund des Gesetzes EV §382 wird der Eigentümer hier in Österreich über mehrere Jahre (solange die Scheidung dauert, kann auch 10 Jahre oder länger sein) von seinem Hab und Gut getrennt ! Wenn das Eigentum (Wohnung, Reihenhaus o ä.) dem Mann gehört muss er aufgrund von Vermutungen (ohne erbrachten Beweise) sein Eigentum sofort verlassen, egal ob er eine andere Wohnmöglichkeit hat oder nicht ? Die Schulden muss er natürlich weiterbezahlen, obwohl er sein Eigentum die nächsten 5-10 Jahre nicht mehr nutzen kann, da es ihm aufgrund der Einstweiligen Verfügung verwehrt wurde ?

In meinem Fall wurde ich 6 Jahre von meinem Eigentum weggewiesen und sitzte innerhalb von 2 Stunden auf der Straße  ohne  Wohnmöglichkeit, die Schulden des 25 jährigen Kredites musste ich natürlich weiterbezahlen oder man bekommt eine Lohnpfändung von der Bank, welche vermutlich auch beim Arbeitgeber indirekt zur Entlassung führt. Bei mir kam dann noch unabhängig von den Schulden für die Ehewohnung noch die Klage des Kindesunterhalts und Ehegattenunterhalts dazu (ca. 1000,- Euro). Wenn man die Zahlungen zusammenrechnet, fehlten mir (trotz meines guten Gehaltes)  ca. 800,- Euro im Monat  und  zusätzlich eine Wohnmöglichkeit (noch nicht eingerechnet) ?

Des weiteren ist das derzeitige Gesetz §382  so  primitiv und Menschen  verachtend,  dass hier dem Eigentümer der Besitz ohne jegliche Prüfung  weggenommen wird. Ich habe bei der Gemeinde wegen einer kleinen Wohnung nachgefragt. Mir wurde jedoch mitgeteilt, dass für mich alleine ohne Kind absolut keine Chance besteht. Jedoch mein Frau hätte die Möglichkeit gehabt bei der Gemeinde in Nö eine Gemeindewohnung für sich und Ihr Kind zu bekommen ! Auch das ich derzeit obdachlos bin, ist völlig uninteressant, wurde mir von der Gemeinde mitgeteilt. Ich solle mal in einem Männerheim oder in der Gruft in Wien nachfragen, ob die vielleicht noch einen Platz zum Schlafen für mich haben“.

Bei der Wegweisung konnte mir die Gendamerie nicht einmal die Adresse des Männerheim für die Übernachtung nennen ?  Der Inspektor teilte mir mit:  „Es gibt  zwei Möglichkeiten:-
1)  siehe geben für die Gerichtsbriefe die Sie in den nächsten Jahren zugestellt bekommen eine Adresse eines Bekannten an und holen sich diese von dort ?
2) oder Sie haben keine andere Adresse als bisher (die ja nicht mehr angegeben werden darf) und holen sich die Briefe hier von der Wachstube ab, dann müssten Sie jede Woche vorbei schauen ?“

Da ich weder meine Schwester erreichte, da Sie im Ausland war und auch meine Eltern  nicht  erreichte, da Sie zu meinen Großeltern verreist waren,  also telefonisch niemanden erreichte wo ich am Freitag Abend übernachten konnte, teilte ich dies den Polizisten mit. Der Polizist sagte zu mir, dass dies mein Problem sei und er leider keine Adresse eines Männerheims oder so habe. Er wisse auch nicht, ob es so was überhaupt gibt ? Ihr Gewand müssen Sie auf jeden Fall jetzt von zu Hause ausräumen und in Plastiksackerl oder Taschen halt irgendwie mitnehmen. Wenn Sie keine Wohnmöglichkeit haben, dann müssen Sie es halt irgendwie mittragen, den hier auf der Wachstube haben wir keinen Platz.

Die darauffolgende Woche teilte man mir bei der Bezirkshauptmannschaft mit, dass  dies alles die Familienrichterin in Mödling entscheidet, also ging ich dort hin. Ich erzählte der Richterin die Erfahrungen und Ereignisse der letzten Tage. Die Richterin von Mödling nahm sich Zeit und gab mir einen Zettel von einer Männerberatung in Wien und sagte, „Hier könne ich eventuell psychologisch betreut werden, welche aber erst am Mo. um 9h aufsperrt ?“ Eine Adresse für ein Männerheim kannte Sie auch nicht. Sie hatte jedoch gemeint, ich hätte die Adresse von der Gendarmerie, vorige Woche, bei der Wegweisung bekommen müssen.

Bei der Männerberatung in Wien 10 erzählte ich von meinem Problem und das ich aufgrund der Schulden und Unterhaltszahlungen kein Geld für eine Wohnung habe.
Die Männerberatung sagte zu mir, „Haben Sie Alkoholprobleme ?“ 
Ich habe gesagt, ich habe noch nie mit Alkohol Probleme gehabt, da mir nach einem Bier nichts mehr schmeckt und ich außerdem immer mit dem Auto fahre.
Der Mann von der Männerberatung sagte: „Wir haben ein Heim für Männer, da sind aber nur Alkoholiker. Wollen Sie da hin ?„.
Ich sagte, ich bin kein Alkoholiker, ich bin Workaholiker, habe aber kein Geld. Wenn´s sonst nichts gibt bleibt mir halt nichts anderes übrig, dann muss ich halt dorthin gehen?
„Wo sind Sie derzeit gemeldet“, sagte der Mann von der Männerberatung noch zu mir.
Ich sagte ihm meine Wohnadresse von Nö.
Da sagte der Mann der Männerberatung, „na da können Sie nicht in das Männerheim, das geht nicht, dass ist nur für Leute die Wien gemeldet sind!“
Ich sagte: „na und wo geh ich dann hin ?“
Der Mann sagte: „na, wenn Sie in Mödling gemeldet sind, da gibt´s glaub ich was in St.Pölten aber Adresse hab ich keine, da kenn ich mich nicht aus.“
Ich sagte, „na  ich arbeite aber jeden Tag in Wien, wie soll ich da jeden Tag nach St.Pölten fahren ?“
Der Mann sagte: „na das is egal, mit dem Zug oder Auto halt.“
Ich hab gesagt: „aber das sind ja hin und retour mehr als 100km, ich muss ja die Schulden für die Ehewohnung und den Unterhalt bezahlen, ich hab nicht soviel Geld, dass ich mir das jeden Tag leisten kann von Wien mit den Zug oder Auto nach St.Pölten zu fahren ?“
Der Mann der Männerberatung sagte: „na Sie haben ja wirklich ein ernsthaftes Problem, sie können sich ja den Strick nehmen, denn ich kann Ihnen leider nicht helfen. Fragen Sie nochmals die Richterin in Mödling, die müsste ja wissen, wer Ihnen in Nö helfen kann und wo Sie wohnen können.“

….und ich erzählte Ihm nochmals die ganze Geschichte, das mir die Richterin den Zettel der Männerberatung gegeben hatte……..usw……..

…….Nach 1,5 h Gespräch wollte ich mir mit den Mann einen neuen Termin ausmachen, dieser sagte jedoch wieder, da Sie kein Alkoholiker sind,  sondern ein wirkliches Problem haben, kann ich Ihnen leider nicht helfen. Ich kann ihnen keinen neuen Termin geben, fragen Sie nochmals die Richterin, ich weis nicht wer Ihnen helfen kann ?

Günther Sch. , Bezirk Mödling         E-Mail: 26.12.2007

Quelle: http://www.wien-konkret.at

Dieser Bericht ist die persönliche Meinung von Günther.
Günther verbrachte Weihnachten 2007 bei seiner Schwester und schläft dzt. dort in einem Notbett im Wohnzimmer.


„Das Recht auf Wohnen“  ist Menschenrecht
In der Allgemeinen Erklärung der Menschenrechte heißt es:

„Jeder hat das Recht auf einen Lebensstandard, der seine und seiner Familie Gesundheit und Wohl gewährleistet, einschließlich Nahrung, Kleidung, Wohnung, ärztliche Versorgung und notwendige soziale Leistungen (…)“ Art. 25 (1) der Allgemeinen Erklärung der Menschenrechte (UN 1948).

Darüber hinaus wurden die Menschenrechte in der „Internationalen Konvention über wirtschaftliche, soziale und kulturelle Rechte“ als UN-Sozialpakt im Jahre 1966 konkretisiert. Das Menschenrecht auf Wohnen ist demzufolge mehr als nur ein Recht auf ein ‚Dach über dem Kopf‘. Es beinhaltet die „rechtliche Sicherheit, die prinzipielle Verfügbarkeit und den offenen, diskriminierungsfreien Zugang zu Wohnraum sowie bestimmte Bedingungen an Wohnqualität und Lage“.
Dieses Recht besteht natürlich auch, „wenn die individuellen finanziellen Mittel für den Erwerb und/oder Unterhalt nicht ausreichen“, also die Versorgung über den Markt aus eigener Kraft nicht möglich ist, so die Bewertung aus dem Nürnberger Menschenrechtszentrum. Das schlägt sich in drei Verpflichtungsdimensionen (Respektierungspflicht, Schutzpflicht, Gewährleistungspflicht) nieder. (Siehe hierzu auch die Tabelle auf der Seite 18 in Die wirtschaftlichen, sozialen und kulturellen Menschenrechte: Die Interpretation ist nicht beliebig!)

Menschenrechte Polizei Betretungsverbot § 38 SPG (Sicherheitspolizeigesetz), Wegweisung
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Parental Alienation – Brad Pitt Angelina Jolie – Video fathers without rigths

Fathers without rights member and part of the Executive Board Christian Schmölz talks about PAS when asked about the divorce of Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie in a radio interview with KroneHitradio October 14, 2016

If a mother wants to supress the contact between children and father, men have minor chances, says Christian Schmölz, member of the association „fathers without rights“ in Austria.

In most cases it hits the fathers, that will be disposed by the mother of their child

And as a result of that many fathers have not seen their children for years!

Child alienation is no criminal offense, here in Austria.

It is called Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS), an offense punished in Brazil with 5 years imprisonment,

and here in Austria one gets even earlier a criminal mandate in a short-stay parking zone.